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Your Teen(s): What You Worry About

Editorial Staff · January 16, 2008 ·

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Each age of a child presents different challenges and different worries. Some stages of youth are going to be more worrisome to parents than other stages. The teenage years are a time for more worry than most. Parents with teens know why they are starting to turn gray, and it is not because of their age. Let’s take a look at some of the things moms and dads worry about with their teenagers:

Sleep. Many teens get into a cycle of very little sleep. In fact, for many teens going to bed after midnight and getting up between six and seven is very common. They have school they have to get up for in the morning, and they have friends, homework, and online lives that keep them up late into the night. As a parent you worry if your child is getting the sleep they need.

Healthy. Many teens are constantly on the go with school, sports, or other extra curricular activities, as well as friends, etc. This can lead to a busy lifestyle where convenience becomes more important than health. So, they get little sleep, they eat pizza, chips, soda, refined and processed foods, and health tends to be the least of their concerns. This is a real worry, and one that can be addressed with planning and some attention.

Too much tv. Television is a part of life, and many parents worry that their teen is spending too much time watching Friends, The Office, Survivor, Alias, 24, Chuck, Life, Bionic Woman and countless other shows. If not monitored, your child could be living their life watching other people live, rather than getting out there and enjoying their own life.


Too much time online. With school classes going more and more to computers, and more and more assignments requiring online research, your child has legitimate reasons for being on the Internet. However, in addition to these scholastic reasons many teens spend hours online chatting, using programs such as Facebook and MySpace for social interactions, etc. The concern many parents have is whether or not their child spends too much time online.

Do people like them? This is a question parents have and worry about no matter what age their child is. It is hard to see your child be unpopular and friendless and it is natural to worry about whether or not they get along with other people.

Are they honest? When your child becomes a teen they get a lot more freedoms than they have when they are younger. They get their driver’s license, they go out with friends, and they have activities that take them away from home. With these freedoms comes a need for trust. You can’t always know what and who your child is doing and associating with. Thus you have to rely on what they say. This can lead to the worry of whether or not your child is being honest with you. Also, the pressures of school and the need to perform so they can get into good colleges, can be overwhelming, so you may wonder about their honesty in school. Money becomes more important, and nice things like clothes, etc. become important, so you may worry about their honesty at work, while shopping and so on.

There are real concerns that come when you have teens, and you can spend time and energy worrying, or you can spend that same time and energy teaching your children, holding them accountable, and helping them to be the best person they can be.

Filed Under: Parenting Teens Tagged With: children, parenting, parents, teenagers, worry

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  1. Diane says

    April 12, 2009 at 2:50 pm

    According to some research I found a high majority of time our teens are spend chatting with friends on MSN or browsing around the major social networking sites like MySpace or Facebook. Of course there is also lots of time getting lost in the entertainment abyss that is YouTube.
    Here were a couple of other things that stood out to me:
    • Just over an hour is devoted to looking up cosmetic surgery procedures
    • An hour and a half is spent on family planning and pregnancy websites
    • One hour 35 minutes is spent investigating diets and weight loss.
    • One in four teenagers of the 1,000 polled said they regularly spoke to strangers online but thought it harmless.
    • One in three admitted trying to hide what they were looking at if a parent entered the room.
    • But children also use the internet to help them with homework, with at least three hours a week spent searching for such information.
    Our kids spend more and more hours online today. Mine would spend every minute on the Internet if I didn’t limit them. Hopefully, my best friend recommended me to try parental control software Ez Internet Timer (www.internettimer.net). Internet timer is the only possible way that I know of to stop my child from going on of the internet.

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