“Do not train a child to learn by force or harshness; but direct them to it by what amuses their minds, so that you may be better able to discover with accuracy the peculiar bent of the genius of each.” --Plato “Coach Lisa, I need clarity on how to create a teachable moment … [Read more...] about Three Lessons Learned From a 12-Pack of Iced Tea Cans
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Tips to Diffuse Anger
Shopping for a car when you are in a hurry is risky business. Driving 65 mph in a school zone is tempting fate. Pushing firefighters aside to run into a burning building is just plain folly. Then why would anyone discipline a child when upset, angry or in a hurry? “Anger blows … [Read more...] about Tips to Diffuse Anger
Using Timeouts to Discipline Your Child
Time outs can be an effective method for discipling a child. When done right, it gives the child some time away from others, a chance to think about and reflect on their behavior, and offers a redirect or place for a child to let their emotions calm, and get under control. Here … [Read more...] about Using Timeouts to Discipline Your Child
Toss Punishment – Keep Discipline
If a parent punishes a child, what does a child learn from that? ‘Punishment’ is a very ugly word and I wish parents would take that word, write it down on a sheet of paper, then wad it up and throw it in the trash because that is where it belongs. The word itself feels heavy … [Read more...] about Toss Punishment – Keep Discipline
Using Timeouts Effectively
Time outs are an effective means of disciplining a child. It is especially effective if done the right way. Some people think time outs do not work, either they can't get their child to stay on time out, or they aren't using it appropriately. However, it is a great method, and … [Read more...] about Using Timeouts Effectively
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