How to Talk to Kids About Alcohol

Talking to kids about alcohol isn't easy. You have to pick the right time and let them know everything that you have learned and experienced in a few short minutes. There are some things you really need to talk about when you talk to kids about alcohol. Let's look at some ways for how to talk to kids about alcohol.

First off, make sure that you pick a time before they enter middle school. Chances are they are already curious about the pictures they see on television where the guy is sipping something in what looks like an IBC root beer bottle but he's calling it beer and looking relaxed and like he's really enjoying himself. You need to have this talk probably sooner than you think. Kids should be taught the standards that you believe in and then taught about what else is out there. Standards should be taught from a very young age and then reinforced throughout the years. It is a foundation for every hard talk that you will have to have with your child about alcohol, drugs, and sex.

Pick a time that is going to be a time where you can talk for an hour if your child wants. It shouldn't be rushed at all. Also, make sure that you do it on a one on one parent to child ratio. If you have twins don't talk to them about it at the same time. It should be something done individually, not a group talk. It's important that your child knows that they are the main focus during that time. Tell your child what you expect from them. Reinforce the standards set by you. Let them know exactly how you feel about the topic and exactly what you expect from them. Don't leave any loopholes.

Talk to Your Kids About Drinking

Teach your child how to say no. Role play with them a little bit. They will probably find it a little cheesy, so find a way that will make it interesting and fun for your child.

Listen to your child. Watch them when you are talking to them. If they seem annoyed or like "whatever, Mom and Dad", you need to watch them carefully. They might already be in danger or might have already tried it. Don't go crazy, but talk to them. Let them know that you are always there for them and that they can always talk to you about anything. Even if they have done something that you aren't happy about, they need to know that they can come to you. It is better for you to deal with the problem in a mature adult way than to have the problem get worse by you not being there for them or by you not recognizing that they are trying to get your help. A great way to keep building your bond between your child is to do something with them every week. Our lives get so busy, but taking a little time for your child will help give you a little down time and will be a great chance for you to learn about each other. You will strengthen your bond and will be able to let your child know that you are there for them.

When you do talk to them, make sure that you keep it age appropriate. Don't go crazy and talk about everything the first time you talk about alcohol. You could be watching a commercial and your child might have a question. Be honest but age appropriate. Don't get afraid or tell your child the wrong thing. It will only make matters worse.