June 2009

You can help your child who is struggling for independence to have it by doing the following: 1. Facebook and MySpace accounts. Independence is often achieved through self expression, and being able to control parts of your own life. If... Continue reading "Five Ways to Give Your Child More Independence"
Being a mother is a very special responsibility, but it is just that--a responsibility. You are not going to be able to go out as much, you won't have as much money, and your priorities are going to change. This... Continue reading "Did Motherhood Ruin Your College Friendships?"
In today's busy world, It's very easy to come home from a long day at work or school and end up sitting down to relax in front of the TV. However, this behavior is not conducive to a healthy, active... Continue reading "The Fit Family: Getting Your Family Physically Active"
Having a new baby in the house can be a big change for everyone, but it generally affects older siblings more, as they start to get less attention. The following is a few tips for how to help older siblings... Continue reading "Tips on Helping Older Siblings Adjust to Life with Baby"
Playground cliques can be hard on kids in elementary school through high school, if you are on the outside looking in, it can be hard on their self esteem. As a parent, knowing what you can do to help your... Continue reading "Helping Your Child Fit In on the Playground"
Marriages can go a little stale if you are not making efforts to put romance into them on a daily basis. The following are ten ways to put romance in your marriage everyday: 1. Write notes. You and your spouse... Continue reading "The Big Ten: Ways to Score Romance with Your Spouse"
If you find yourself in the position as a parent of not liking your child's friends, it can be difficult to know what you should do. As a parent, it is your prerogative to not like your kid's friends, but... Continue reading "Your Child's Friends and You"
There are basically two stages in your child's life when they start to assert their independence, when they are toddlers, and tweens. The following is a look at how you can help your tween be more independent, and in a... Continue reading "5 Tips on Giving Kids Independence"
The sacrifice of motherhood is more than just giving up certain parts of your body for a while, getting sagging breasts, stretch marks, lacking energy, and dealing with poop, spit, etc. for several years. One of the sacrifices of motherhood... Continue reading "Girl Interrupted: Motherhood vs. Your College Friends"
Many people, when studying modern marriage, are dismayed at the number which are ending in divorce and the reasons why they seem to be failing. While there are a myriad of reasons why a marriage might be damaged, there are... Continue reading "Marriage Derailed: Common Marital Issues and Suggested Resolutions"
For some families, getting exercise and doing physical activities are at the bottom of the to-do list. With the average family involved in work, school and outside interests, many times it is easier, because everyone is spent from their other... Continue reading "Family Fitness: Getting and Keeping Your Brood Physically Fit"
The following are some great tips for helping older siblings adjust to life with a new baby: 1. Read books to your child about other kids who have had a new baby come into their home. There are several books... Continue reading "Life with Baby: For the Older Siblings"
As a parent it can be difficult to watch your child be excluded, and often the playground is where it manifests the most. In the classroom the teacher is there to regulate interaction, and so the child is included, often... Continue reading "How to Break into A Playground Clique"
Coupons are a great way to save money and they're not just found in your Sunday paper anymore! Grocery coupons are available all the time online for free or nearly free. Let's look at some great resources for online grocery... Continue reading "Where to Find Great Coupons Online"
Marriages often lack romance. It is almost as if you got it out of your system before you got married. This is not a good thing. Romance fuels marriage and helps it stay fun. So, try the following ten things... Continue reading "Ten More Steps to Everyday Romance"
There has perhaps never been a more difficult climate for marriage than today's climate. With the pressures of jobs, careers, families and finances couples find themselves under increasing demands. The stress of these demands often finds couples internalizing problems that... Continue reading "Avoiding Divorce: Great Tips for Saving a Marriage on The Brink"
Many families are in the habit of coming home from work or school and sitting down to relax in front of the TV and it's an easy habit to adopt. However, this habit often backfire quickly as people who spend... Continue reading "Tips For Healthy Family Time"
Finding tips for living on a small budget can be hard because there are hundreds of tips and suggestions out there, which can prove as helpful as it is overwhelming. In fact, sometimes you don't even know where to start... Continue reading "Living On a Small Budget: Searching Out Great Money Saving Tips"
One of the best things you can do for your marriage is make an effort to amp up the amount of romance you have in it. There are small gestures, and little things you can do each day to improve... Continue reading "10 Simple Ways to Put Romance in Your Marriage Everyday"
o Avoid Marital Suicide - When one or both partners decide the only cure for what ails their marriage is divorce, this is known as marital suicide. At some point in every marriage, one or both partners question whether or... Continue reading "Marriage 102: Little Things to Improve Your Marriage In Big Ways"
Families are busier now than ever before with hectic work, school and extracurricular schedules, and it can be tempting to grab fast food on the way home and relax in front of the TV after a long day. However, this... Continue reading "Family Fitness Suggestions: Getting and Staying Healthy"
The rise in childhood obesity is a growing problem worldwide. Children who are obese or overweight have a higher likelihood of struggling with weight and health problems throughout their lives. There are a number of reasons for the increase in... Continue reading "Best Exercises For Healthy Kids"
While we all know how important exercise is, when you have little kids in the house, it sometimes seems like you time is yourself lowest priority. Between work, making meals and taking care of your young children, it might seem... Continue reading "Fitness for Moms: Suggestions For Making Your Work Out a Priority"
Eating out is an extreme luxury for some families especially if you do it frequently or have a large family. There are many websites which offer restaurant coupons. Restaurants create coupons for almost the same reason as retail merchants: they... Continue reading "Where to Find Great Restaurant Coupons Online"
Everyday household needs such as toilet paper, paper towels and other basic necessities can be pricey, especially since these items rarely go on sale. The good news, though, is you can find coupons for them online. Here are some great... Continue reading "Merchandise Coupons: Some Great Online Sites"
Living frugally is wonderful because it frees your time and energy for the more important things in life. Because you have a budget which you stick to, you know that you will spend money when it's needed and that you'll... Continue reading "Great Websites For Fantastic Frugal Living Tips"
Living frugally can be hard as you don't want to skimp on too many things, but you don't want to over-spend either. Finding great new money-saving ideas can be tough for even the most well- seasoned frugal shopper. If you're... Continue reading "Best Frugal Living Websites With Great Forums"
Saving money can be easy. You don't have to do drastic things in order to save hundreds of dollars annually. Making simple changes to your lifestyle will have you spending money on things you need as well as things you... Continue reading "Easy Ways to Save Money Everyday"
There are many tips available for living on one paycheck and, while it is easy for some people to live on one paycheck, if yours was once a two paycheck household, it may be harder for you to adjust to... Continue reading "Tips For Living on One Paycheck"
Buying presents around the holidays gets very expensive. While we all want to get everyone we know a nice gift, if you aren't sure how to make your money stretch to cover the gifts you want to get, read on.... Continue reading "Saving Money Around The Holidays"
The sad truth about today's marriages is that many of them fail. Most marriages start out great but the stress and difficulties of everyday life often take their toll. While money, careers and family demands often play a part in... Continue reading "Marriage 101: 5 Common Marriage-Ending Pitfalls to Avoid"
Making ends meet with only one paycheck can be very trying; this can be especially true if your lifestyle and budget were previously supported by two paychecks. Many people live on one paycheck and manage to make ends meet. While... Continue reading "The Single Paycheck Household: Making Ends Meet on a Budget"
Teens struggle with body image more than any other age group. A lot of this is due to the many changes their body undergoes and the adjustment from child to emerging adult. In order to encourage your child to have... Continue reading "You Look Great! Your Teen's Self Image"
Living within a budget can be difficult whether or not you have a decent, regular income. Many people today are apt to spend money very quickly and without regard for its value. If they have no budget or do not... Continue reading "Helpful Websites For Budgeting and Frugal Living"
Living within a budget can be difficult whether or not you have a decent, regular income. Many people today are apt to spend money very quickly and without regard for its value. If they have no budget or do not... Continue reading "Helpful Websites For Living on a Budget"
Childhood obesity is becoming more and more common, but that does not mean you want your child to be one of the kids that suffers from being severely overweight. Childhood obesity is going to affect their overall health, their self... Continue reading "Just Do It: Avoiding Childhood Obesity"
Teens struggle with enough, with peer pressure, and growing up, and changing bodies, but the fact is one of their big struggles is often that of maintaining a healthy body image. The following is a look at how to encourage... Continue reading "Your Teen's Sharper Image"
Summer is the perfect time to get fit and stay healthy. With warm weather, open pools, and many opportunities to take advantage of outdoor sports, getting fit and staying healthy is also fun. However, it's also a time for vacations,... Continue reading "Summer Fun: Tips for Staying Healthy and Fit in The Heat"
Kids love to play with other kids, and moms are always up for talking to and getting to know other moms better, especially when they do not have a lot of interaction with other adults during the day. Thus, the... Continue reading "Some Pitfalls of Playgroups"
Moms need a night out on occasion, and the following is a look at why it is so important that they get this night out. 1. It gets them out of the house. When you are a mom, your life... Continue reading "You Can't Keep A Good Mom Down"
When you are living on one paycheck money can be very tight; you need to be able to make a dollar stretch. There are a lot of items, most bought out of habit not necessity, which would have little or... Continue reading "The Single Paycheck Budget: How to Cut Expenses and Live With Less"
With prices rising, seemingly daily, on everything, everywhere, it is important to find ways to cut back on your spending wherever you can. While there are certainly some areas where compromise is not possible, there are definitely various ways to... Continue reading "Minding Your Money: Cutting Your Bills Down to Size"
Fight the problem of childhood obesity by the following: How you live: What kind of lifestyle does your child lead? Do they spend their time after school out playing with friends in the yard or park, or do they sit... Continue reading "Steps to Avoid Childhood Obesity"
Frugal living can be a challenge. Most people don't have a lot of money to spend though they must maintain a certain standard of living. Basic costs of living include a house or rent payment, a car or other transportation... Continue reading "Great Suggestions For Frugal Living"
While playgroups offer many positive things for kids, there are some real drawbacks to being part of a playgroup as well, especially if it is not a well-managed playgroup. The following is a look at a few of the pitfalls... Continue reading "Playgroup Pointers"
Even moms need a break sometime. The best moms can find themselves getting impatient with their children, or feeling frustrated. Some time to themselves to go out and have a break is necessary for moms to stay happy, and enjoy... Continue reading "Remember the Mom in You"
Fighting childhood obesity is something every parent should strive for. While no parent wants their child to be fat, many practice unhealthy habits that lead to this. So, if you want to help your child be at a healthy weight,... Continue reading "Fighting Childhood Obesity"
The following are some tips for encouraging a healthy body image for your teens: Be realistic but kind with your teen about their body: While it is important to never hurt your child's self esteem, it is also important to... Continue reading "Tips for Encouraging Healthy Body Image"
Many moms with small children try to find a playgroup to get involved with. A playgroup typically meets once a week, or once every other week, and all the kids get together and play. The idea is to teach kids... Continue reading "Playgroup Pitfalls"
Why is it important for moms to take a mom's night out on occasion? Why should they leave the care of their child or children to someone else while they see a movie, get their nails done, go out to... Continue reading "What Does Mom's Night Out Do?"
Living within a strict budget and trying not to overspend can be difficult to do, especially with prices for everything increasing seemingly daily. However, there are many resources available to help you succeed in living within a budget. Let's look... Continue reading "Tips for Frugal Living: Where to Find Them and How to Live Them"
Encouraging a healthy body image for teens is not always easy, but it is possible. Try the following: Teach by example: The best way to get your child's body image to a healthy level is to be a positive example... Continue reading "Encouraging Healthy Body Image in Teens"
One of the toughest decisions a mom has to make is whether she is going to try and stay home with her child or go to work outside of the home. This is a tough decision because there are several... Continue reading "Work or Stay Home"
Clipping coupons doesn't have to be just for those on a tight budget or for the brutally frugal. Coupons are for anyone who wants to save a little bit of money and, really, who doesn't want to save a little... Continue reading "Dream Websites For The Coupon Clipper"
Part of the rites of passage for most teens is that of acne, or at least somewhat pimply skin, and zits coming out at just the wrong time. Even though it is a rite of passage that nearly 80% of... Continue reading "Teen's Guide to Basic Skin Care"
Trying to find ways to save money can be hard, especially if you don't want to spend too much time searching for coupons or running to different stores just to save a few bucks. The good news is you don't... Continue reading "Frugal Living: Great Tips and Coupon Websites"
When postpartum depression lasts, and worsens, it is called postpartum psychosis. If your postpartum depression lasts and gets worse, you need to get immediate medical attention. Depending up the severity of your postpartum psychosis, it might need a brief hospitalization.... Continue reading "Fighting The Mommy Blues: A Primer For Postpartum Depression"
Pros and cons exist for moms going back to work or staying home with the kids. This makes the decision of whether or not you should work or be a stay-at-home mom such a difficult one. While the pros and... Continue reading "To Work or Not to Work: That is the Question"
Teens get zits, pimples and acne, but there are some things you can do to care for your skin. First is prevention. With a few simple steps you can minimize the amount of pimples you get, and help rid yourself... Continue reading "Care for Your Skin"
Coupons can help you save tons of money. The problem is, you can't always find good coupons, or ones that are for things that you need. Luckily, there are tons of great websites that offer free or really cheap coupons... Continue reading "Best Coupon Sites"
You are not alone if you are a parent looking for some help when it comes to talking to your kids. As they get older, kids start to live in a different world and it becomes increasingly difficult to talk... Continue reading "Talking To Your Kids - 5 Wise Strategies For Clear Communication"
Postpartum depression usually begins 2 to 3 weeks after giving birth, but can start any time during the first few days, weeks or months post-delivery. It is common for it to last anywhere from a few days to a few... Continue reading "Suggestions For Coping With Postpartum Depression"
The big mommy dilemma is that of whether or not they should go to work or stay home. Many mothers feel it is important for them to be at home and raise their child, not leave their child to the... Continue reading "The Mommy Dilemma"
Teenagers often suffer from pimply skin. Acne is common, and teens hate it. Lucky for them, it is a treatable skin condition. Also fortunately for teens, pretty much all other teens get the same, or similar problems. In fact, about... Continue reading "Skincare for Pimply Teens"
Lying is something every parent has to deal with at some point. Whether it is a blatant lie, a white lie, a tall tale or a fib, lying is often difficult to handle. So, let's take a look at why... Continue reading "Why Kids Lie, An Age By Age Guide"
Sexting" is the practice of sending a sexually explicit text or taking a sexually revealing picture of yourself, (typically from a cell phone), and sending it to someone. Putting the legal consequences aside, it is just a dumb thing to... Continue reading "Should Sexting Be Considered Child Pornography?"
Sadly we are all too familiar with the horrors of child pornography. Case after case seems to attract our attention as adult predators take advantage of the weakest among us. When viewing these cases it makes everyone glad that there... Continue reading "Child Pornography and Sexting: An Opinion"
When your child is a wacky dresser your emotions are likely to run the gamut from embarrassment to frustration. The following are a few of the emotions you may feel followed by some advice on how to handle your wacky... Continue reading "Stripes with Checks: What to Do When Your Child Is A Wacky Dresser"
Many women experience postpartum depression. When they have their baby, they expect everything to be wonderful and perfect, but sometimes sleep deprivation, hormonal changes and other factors can combine to cause postpartum depression. Mild cases are referred to as "baby... Continue reading "What To Do When Postpartum Depression Lasts - A Starter Guide"
The following are some simple hints for how you can say goodbye to mommy guilt and embrace the good mother in you. Do the math: Many mom's feel guilt when they spend time on themselves, rather than on their kids.... Continue reading "Mommy Guilt: Say Goodbye to Guilt and Hello to Happiness"
Does your child wear bright colors and stripes with checks or polka dots? Does your child add funny accessories to every outfit they put on? Does your child's appearance often garner some stares or at least interest? Most parents will... Continue reading "So Your Child Is A Wacky Dresser - Should You Be Concerned?"
The summer is generally a time when you spend a great deal of your day outside. You play at the park, go to the pool or partake of any number of other outdoor activities. Because you are generally on the... Continue reading "Summer Finger Foods For Kids"
Are you feeling that awful feeling often referred to as mommy guilt? You know, that feeling when you are dragging yourself down because you snapped at your kids, didn't have the energy to have sex with your husband or had... Continue reading "Say Goodbye To Mommy Guilt"
Perhaps when you were in school, kids passed flirtatious or even racy notes to people they liked. Sometimes those notes got dropped on the floor or confiscated by the teacher and, before long, everyone was gossiping between classes about what... Continue reading "What Every Parent Needs to Know About Sexting"
The range of summer finger foods is vast and there are plenty of delicious options to choose from. The following is a look at some fun options for summer finger foods. Chips and dips: You can be as traditional as... Continue reading "Happening Hors d'oeuvres: A Guide to Summer Finger Foods"
Tips for saying goodbye to mommy guilt: 1. Take care of you and see the results in your children. It is like a mathematical equation You + time for yourself = Happier you Happier you + your kids = Happier... Continue reading "Mommy Guilt - Saying Goodbye to Guilt Forever"
Kids lie. It is a simple fact that, at some point in your life as a parent, you will be lied to by your child. In fact, it will probably happen several times, in several different ways and for a... Continue reading "Kids Lie - An Age By Age Guide to Why"
Kids lie, so let's take a look at an age by age guide to why they do it. Toddlers: It is during the toddler stage when the first fibs are told. It might be something like saying they are not... Continue reading "Lying Child: Age by Age Guild for Why They Do It"
The new term of "sexting" may have just come on the radar for many parents but understanding what sexting is and how it can affect your child or teen has become crucial. Sexting is a term that refers to the... Continue reading "What Parents Can Do About Sexting"
Every kid has their own sense of style and sometimes that style just doesn't jive well with what you, as their parent, would like them to wear. This can be especially difficult if your child is a wacky dresser. However,... Continue reading "Your Wacky Dresser: Tips for Coping with Your Child's Unique Style"
"Sexting": (which is a word combination of sex and texting) is the act of sending sexually explicit or sexually provocative photos electronically, primarily between cell phones. This is primarily done by anyone with a cell phone or computer that is... Continue reading "What Parents Should Understand About Sexting"
It can be difficult to talk to your kids. Besides the fact that the slang, and language has changed much, making it often as difficult as talking to someone who speaks a different language, they are also often resistant to... Continue reading "Talking Heads: 5 Strategies for Effective Communications with Your Kids"
It is possible for the kids to enjoy being indoors and with a little imagination you can enjoy indoor fun all year long. The following are five great ideas for indoor fun to help push away boredom on those rainy... Continue reading "Bringing The Fun Indoors: 5 Great Ideas for Enjoying Time Inside"
If your tween child has anxiety about going to school you should address it. The fact of the matter is that the tween school years are the ones most likely to cause anxiety in your child. They struggle with their... Continue reading "High Anxiety: Suggestions for Tackling Tween Anxiety"
Summer finger foods are a lot of fun and there are plenty of options out there, from fancy foods like bacon wrapped scallops to more basic foods like chips and dips. So, how do you choose your summer finger foods?... Continue reading "Choosing Your Summer Finger Foods"
From toddler to teen, there are always going to be times when it is difficult to talk to your children. The following are five strategies for talking to your kids: 1. Ask open ended questions: If your child is being... Continue reading "5 Strategies For Talking to Your Kids"
If your tween is suffering from tween school anxiety, there are a few things you can do to help alleviate their stress and fix the problem: First, discuss fears. Discussing the things that are causing them to feel anxious about... Continue reading "3 Fixes For Tween School Anxiety"
Mommy guilt is common. The following are some of the common sources of mommy guilt, and how to rid yourself of it: Yelling: Yelling is the thing moms feel guilty about. If you count yourself among the number of people... Continue reading "Say Goodbye to Mommy Guilt"
According to a recent study in the Journal of Human Hypertension, the average 4-year-old eats 2,400 milligrams of salt per day, double the recommended maximum amount. The study also found that kids that were eating the most salt also had... Continue reading "Cutting Back on Salt For Kids"
When you have children you know that being stuck indoors can be very difficult. When the weather is bad or the day is too hot to be out of doors, it is always nice to have some fun ideas for... Continue reading "Five Ideas For Indoor Fun"
If your tween child has anxiety about going to school you should address it promptly. Your child's tweens, as they are now called, are the probably some of the toughest years of his or her life and the ones most... Continue reading "3 Fixes For Tween School Anxiety"
Many people do not realize the danger of having too much salt in their diet. Medical studies have conclusively linked having too much salt in your diet to high blood pressure which may lead to heart problems, stroke, kidney disease... Continue reading "Cutting Back on Salt"
While reading nutrition facts labels can be difficult, especially if you do not know what to look for, there is help. The Nutrition Facts Label can give you a lot of information but the key is to know how to... Continue reading "What's Important to Know About Nutrition Labels?"
If your tween is suffering from tween school anxiety, there are a few things you can do to help alleviate their stress and fix the problem: First, discuss fears. Discussing what is causing them to feel anxious about school can... Continue reading "3 Fixes For Tween School Anxiety"
If Americans would cut just a little salt from their diets, researchers say we could prevent a quarter of a million heart disease cases and 200,000 deaths over the next decade. In addition, reducing salt by just a gram per... Continue reading "Dining Out Without Salt"
Sibling rivalry is a subject that most parents are not well equipped to handle. They simple assume that when brothers and sisters are part of a family they just will get along. Sadly, this subject is prone to evoke self-doubt,... Continue reading "5 Ways to Help Siblings Get Along"
Does your child get bored sitting inside all day when the weather is too poor to be outdoors or when you are too busy to accompany them? Well, try one or all of the following five ideas to get them... Continue reading "Five Ideas For Indoor Fun"
If you are the parent of teenage children you may be wondering where your compliant, fun and loving elementary age kids went. While you are certainly not alone, it can be difficult enough to navigate the teen years if you... Continue reading "How To Help Your Teenage Children Get Along"
Many physicians note that school-related stresses and illnesses often peak during the tween years as these years bring out the stresses that many children avoid or have not felt previously. When middle school begins academic pressures increase and, coupled with... Continue reading "3 Fixes For Tween School Anxiety"
While it seems like nutritional experts are constantly touting the importance of food labels you may be wondering how they can work for you. While there are now labels on just about everything in the grocery store it is important... Continue reading "Making Food Labels Work For You"
With all the constant talk about food labels you may wondering how important they really are. Many people assume that since the nutrition facts label on your favorite breakfast cereal tells you it's full of vitamins and minerals it must... Continue reading "How Important is a Food Label?"

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