March 2008

Any parent, new or experienced will tell you one of the most frustrating problems that confront you early on is trying to get your new baby to go to sleep and stay asleep through the night. Exhausted parents take on... Continue reading "How Serious is My Baby's Sleep Problem?"
Of course you want to keep the peace in your house by curbing sibling rivalries. The only problem is that you either may not know how to do this or you may have run out of patience. The truth of... Continue reading "Curb Sibling Rivalry and Keep the Peace at Home"
Being a mom has its ups and downs, and while the rewards are worth every minute, sometimes being a mom can be a stressful job. This is inevitable, no matter how organized you are, the laundry will start to pile... Continue reading "How to Beat the Stress When You Are a Busy Mom"
With all the joy and excitement the arrival of a newborn brings it is always a shock to meet the reality of sleepless nights that accompany a new baby. It is often easy to spot new parents by the sleep-deprived... Continue reading "Getting More Sleep When You Have an Infant"
Chances are that if you are not an only child, you have had some sort of conflict with one of your siblings. Sibling rivalries are very normal and happen to most families. Now that you have children of your own... Continue reading "Tips for Keeping the Peace Despite Sibling Rivalry"
Being a mom is a fun, but sometimes overwhelming task. You have to feed, clothe, and care for your children. In addition to that you generally have to keep your home clean, and handle other responsibilities such as carpool, mentor,... Continue reading "Busy Moms Can Eliminate Stress Too"
One of the most difficult problems for parents of a new baby is trying to get their baby to sleep through the night. This can be a huge challenge as new parents must combat the effects of sleep deprivation while... Continue reading "Your Baby's Sleep Problems"
No good parent enjoys hearing the sound of their children bickering with each other. When children fight it is sad for parents because obviously they want for their children to get along with each other and love each other as... Continue reading "Controlling Sibling Rivalries"
If you are a mom then you are likely busy. Very few moms know the meaning of the phrase "free time" simply because it is not part of a mother's vocabulary. One word that most moms do understand and are... Continue reading "Daily Stress Busters for Busy Moms"
One of the hardest challenges facing new parents is when they have a gassy, colicky baby who just will not sleep. The bottom line is that all babies have gas; some babies simply have more than others. To make matters... Continue reading "Dealing with Colic and Gas in Sleepless Infants"
While you may feel overwhelmed with the fact that your precious newborn does not sleep, one of the first things that will help is doing some research on what you are dealing with. In other words, in order to better... Continue reading "Common Causes of Sleep Problems in Infants"
Introduction If you are a mother of more than one child you can probably contribute your own two cents to the topic of sibling rivalries. Sibling rivalries occur in almost every family and can even follow your children into adulthood... Continue reading "How to Keep the Peace Between Siblings"
Most parents would agree that is it better to teach your children how to resolve their own conflicts than it is to always intervene on their behalf. Yet, teaching your children how to handle sibling rivalries in a positive manner... Continue reading "Helping Your Children Deal with Rivalry Positively"
If your baby is feeding well, the next big parenting issue is usually how to get your child to sleep through the night. Most infants have sleep problems, including trouble falling asleep, waking up and having irregular sleep patterns. While... Continue reading "Best Books for Dealing with Sleep Problem in Babies"
Introduction At some point everyone has an argument with their sibling. Sometimes these rivalries are tame and other times they can be quite serious. If you are a parent of more than one child chances are that you have witnessed... Continue reading "How to Deal with Sibling Rivalries"
School is a huge part of your child's life. On average your child spends more time at school or at school related activities than they spend awake at home. It should therefore come as no surprise that school related rivalries... Continue reading "Keeping the Peace: Sibling Rivalry and School"
The highlight for many teens is their sixteenth birthday when they finally get their driver’s license, borrow mom and dad’s keys and hit the road with their friends. Driving provides teens with much more than a mode of transportation, driving... Continue reading "Tips for Teaching Your Teen Safe Driving"
While some believe that the only way to make teens safer drivers is to withhold giving them their licenses until they turn thirty, others believe that a less drastic way to ensure safer teen drivers is simply to boost their... Continue reading "Teen Driving: How to Make Your Teen A Safer Driver"
I think that we all have our own beliefs about the safety issues involved with sharing the road with teenagers. I am sure that most people have seen a car full of teens and grasped the wheel a little harder... Continue reading "Statistics About Teens and Safe Driving"
Kids (and especially teens) aren't always excited about education experiences that you may want them to have. Fire safety may not be the most captivating lesson that you will ever teach your children, but it may just be the most... Continue reading "Tips and Tricks for Fire Safety for Kids and Teens"
When shopping with little ones there are a few things that, if you remember, will make your experience a lot less stressful. Here are just a few such tips for shopping with little ones: Children have limits Children are not... Continue reading "Tips for Shopping with Little Ones"
In most states teenagers begin their driving experiences by being issued a learner’s permit. The reasoning behind being issued this learners permit is to encourage a time of learning for your teen. Teens use their learner’s permit to gain experience... Continue reading "Safe Driving for Teens"
You would not let your child venture out late at night without first giving them some precautions that would keep them safe. Likewise you would not send your child to work at a machinery shop without first teaching them how... Continue reading "Safe Driving Rules For Your Teen"
Be sure to call your airline to find out its specific regulations regarding children flying alone. In general though, airlines follow these guidelines.Here are the things you should know when your child flies alone: The ground rules set by the... Continue reading "What YOU Should Know When Your Child Flies Alone"
Shopping with kids can add hours to your day and wrinkles to your face. If you have children, you know that taking them out without the help of another adult is challenging. Even when there are multiple adults present children... Continue reading "Shopping Sanity: How to Shop With Little Helpers"
As with any lesson that you will teach your children, reinforcement of those lessons is vital to long term learning and memory retention. Most school systems will take the time to teach kids about fire safety. It is common for... Continue reading "Teaching Fire Danger to Enforce Fire Safety"
Sometimes keeping your teen safe when they are driving means taking matters into your own hands. Most states require by law that certain training be accomplished before a teenagers is granted the privilege to drive a car. Depending on where... Continue reading "Keeping Your Teen Safe When They Are Driving"
There are some things you and your child should know before they fly alone. The rules the airline has is a good place to start, and the precautions you can take is a good place to end. So, start by... Continue reading "What You and Your Child Should Know Before They Fly Alone"
You probably didn’t plan for how much more complicated even the simplest things would be once you had kids. It’s hard to imagine the possible scenarios that you could find yourself in at the store with a toddler unless you... Continue reading "Shopping Preparation When Shopping With Children"
Teens are better able to understand more of the finer points of fire safety than are their younger siblings. Teens are also better able to retain and bring to memory more of the details of fire safety. For these and... Continue reading "Teaching Teens Fire Safety"
Introduction Teens learn driving safety rules in school and at home, but often times it becomes more of a challenge to enforce these safe driving rules with your teens once they are actually allowed to get on the road. Preparation... Continue reading "How to Enforce Safe Driving With Your Teen"
It can be daunting to send your child on an airplane without you, but if you take proper precaution it does not have to be any scarier than sending them to school. The following are some of the things you... Continue reading "What to Know to Ease Your Mind About Your Unaccompanied Minor"
When you shop with little ones, you have to employ some tips and tricks in order to keep your sanity, leave the store with out every treat and toy, and not spend five times more than you planned because your... Continue reading "Shopping With Kids: Tips and Tricks"
Fire safety is actually something that it typically emphasized while we are children. Obviously it is not only important for children to be educated early on about fires so that they know what to do in case of a fire,... Continue reading "Teaching Kids and Teens About Fire Safety"
If you have even one child you know how much of a challenge that it can be to take children with you as you go shopping. Infants may or may not sit quietly in the carriers while you shop. But... Continue reading "5 Things You MUST Have if Shopping With Children"
Just like your gender and temperament influences your personality, birth order has also been proven to affect personality.   Psychologists like Alfred Adler, who was one of the first to suggest that birth order affects personality, believe that there are... Continue reading "Why Birth Order Affects Personality"
Teenagers are not gifted with the ability to drive perfectly once they turn sixteen, yet they often feel like they are able to drive just as well as everyone else on the road. This mentality of teenage indestructibility is just... Continue reading "Helping Your Teen Be A Safer Driver"
Here are some of the tips and things you should know when your child flies alone: •Give notice to the airline: The best thing you can do to help ensure your child's safety is to inform the airline they are... Continue reading "Tips When Your Child is Flying Unaccompanied"
Imagine a quick trip to the grocery store to pick up a gallon of milk and some fresh fruit. Now picture coming home three hours later with toys, cookies, candy, no milk, and only a bag of apples. You are... Continue reading "Sane Shopping With Your Little Children"
Teaching children fire safety is something that needs to be done not only in school but also at home. Children need to be taught fire safety by their parents and unique fire safety issues that pertain to their own house... Continue reading "Teaching Children Fire Safety"
If you have children you understand how much of a hassle it is to run even the most simple of errands. You may have been a highly punctual person before you had kids; in fact, you were probably on time... Continue reading "5 Things to Do BEFORE Shopping With Kids"
Birth order has been proven to have at least some significant effects on personality types. Although you may not bear all the traits of your birth order type, chances are good that you have at least some of them. Here... Continue reading "Trends in Birth Order and Personality Type"
Here are some common feelings, and things you can do before your kids leave and after to work the feelings out and enjoy having an empty nest instead of lamenting it: Sadness: To work this feeling out you want to... Continue reading "Working Out Feelings While Coping With Empty Nest Syndrome"
Teens are excited to get their licenses and to explore their newfound freedoms of being able to drive themselves wherever they please. Teens often overlook the dangers associated with driving, underestimating the possibility for harm and the power of a... Continue reading "Causes of Unsafe Teen Driving"
Everyone has something to say about how you should raise your kids. That doesn’t make everyone right or mean that you should listen to any of them. Remember though, some advice comes from life experience, some comes from book learning,... Continue reading "What the Experts Say About Parenting Styles"
If your child is flying alone there are some things you will want to do: •Make sure they have a working cell phone. This way they can reach you if there is a problem and reach the person picking them... Continue reading "Things to Do if Your Child is Flying Alone"
Fire prevention is a responsibility that every member of the household has. No matter the age of a child there is something that they can learn about safety with fire. Of course the best way to really test your family's... Continue reading "Rules for Your Kids About Fire"
Shopping is a fun and exciting thing for some, and a necessary evil for others. Then there is the in between. Most parents of small children look forward to shopping with a little dread as well. It is nice to... Continue reading "Don't Leave Home Without: Shopping With Children"
We've all heard it before: "you just have second child syndrome" or "leave her alone, she's just suffering from middle child syndrome." But how accurate is the "second child syndrome?" Does it really affect birth order and personality? Is it... Continue reading "Second Child Syndrome, Birth Order and Personality"
Parental involvement in the teaching of safe driving techniques is vital. Statistically, teens who have parents who are involved in their driver’s education to the point where they are establishing house rules of their own in addition to the state... Continue reading "Best Practices for Parents to Help Teens Drive Safe"
When you start looking at having a family it means that you start looking at how you are going to parent that family. The decision can be a tough one, and sometimes you might feel like you made the wrong... Continue reading "What Parenting Style Works For Your Children"
Kids are flying more and more these days, especially without Mom and Dad. For a while after September 11, security concerns and a series of "misplaced children" incidents during the summer of 2001, unaccompanied minors were not allowed to fly.... Continue reading "The Skinny on Unaccompanied Minors Flying"
Taking your kids shopping with you can be a real chore. However, there are things you can do to make the trip easier. So, to understand what you can do, let’s first look at what makes shopping with children hard:... Continue reading "Make Shopping Easier With Little Ones"
Making a plan in case of a fire could mean the difference between getting all of your family members out of the house safely and failing to do so. Obviously we would all do anything in our power to make... Continue reading "Making A Plan in Case of Fire"
From only the first few weeks of life, we begin to show signs of our own distinct and unique personalities. These personalities are amplified by our temperament, interests, social status, group of friends, and birth order. And if you're one... Continue reading "Strong Personalities: Which Birth Order Are They?"
When your kids leave home your life changes, and many people develop what is called empty nest syndrome. The really bad part, however, is that many long-term married couples divorce one another after the kids leave home and they have... Continue reading "Avoiding Empty Nest-Induced Divorce"
There are four main parenting styles, and each comes with positive and negative aspects. For each child and each situation the weight of positive and negative will be different. There is no right or wrong answer when it comes to... Continue reading "Pros and Cons of Various Parenting Styles"
Having your child fly alone can be nerve wracking enough, so calm your nerves and exercise some precautions before sending them on a flight. The following are some rules and regulations, as well as suggestions for when your child flies... Continue reading "Rules and Regulations When Your Child Flies"
In school kids are taught what to do and where to go if there is a fire in the school building. Fire drills are held regularly and your child probably does well and follows instructions for safe evacuation during these... Continue reading "Keeping Your Kids Safe in the Event of Fire"
Birth order has been shown to affect a child's personality. The forerunner of this idea was Alfred Adler, who was a contemporary of Sigmund Freud. Adler suggested that birth order was a major determinant of the main influences on personality.... Continue reading "How Does Birth Order Affect A Child's Personality"
Here are the typical symptoms of people who struggle with an empty nest, and suggestions for coping with each of them: Sadness: It is totally natural to be sad when your children leave home. Both moms and dads can experience... Continue reading "Top Tips for Coping With An Empty Nest"
Many parents look into the different parenting styles and feel like they can’t be defined or put in a category. This is very true. There are so many varieties of parenting that it may be hard to settle into one.... Continue reading "Parenting Your Own Way; Making Your Own Style"
When you have a child flying alone there are some things you will want to do to help ensure their safety. Follow some of these rules of thumb to help ensure their safety and protect them from getting lost, stranded,... Continue reading "Rules of Thumb When Your Child is Flying Alone"
Introduction Fire safety basics are often left up to the school system to teach. And while the school system may do a fine job at teaching the basics of fire safety they cannot teach each and every child about the... Continue reading "Help Your Kids and Teens Understand Fire Safety Basics"
When your child leaves home it can be a time of mixed feelings. You may feel relief at the prospect of no longer having the phone ring off the hook, or the fights about curfew, and sad at the thought... Continue reading "Things You Can Do to Cope with an Empty Nest"
Birth order has long been considered to be one of most influential things on personal characteristics.  Most of us have some, if not all, or the traits assigned to our birth position.   Obviously, that personality is influenced by our... Continue reading "How Birth Order Affects Personality"
You are going to be a parent. You didn’t know you needed a style! Well you are in luck, here we will go over all of the different aspects of parenting styles. This should help ease your mind and get... Continue reading "Parenting Styles 101"
With our whole world changing, some kids are as much of world travelers as many business men. Especially children who have parents split up, and they have to fly from one state to another, or one city to another to... Continue reading "Guidelines When Your Child Flies Solo"
Fires are devastating. No one wants to ever have the experience of being involved in a house fire, yet no one is immune to the possibility of this happening. That is why it is so imperative that all of us... Continue reading "Fire Safety for Kids and Teens"
When your children have filled your life, the realization that they'll soon be gone or are gone, can leave you sad and leave you with feelings you are not sure how to cope with. Let's take a look at home... Continue reading "Dealing With Empty Nest Syndrome"
Birth order has been shown to affect your personality, even into adulthood.  Although there are other areas that may have affected your personality, studies have shown that first borns, second borns, onlys and youngest borns really do respond and react... Continue reading "Does Birth Order Really Make A Difference in Personality?"
Choosing a parenting style needs to be done on a few different bases. Make sure that you think about your child’s temperament, your current life situation and also your personality type. To give your child the best opportunity you need... Continue reading "Matching Your Parenting Style With Your Personality Type"
Does birth order really affect personality? Are second children more likely to have issues than the youngest? Are only children really spoiled brats or are they just independent? Learn the answers to all of these questions here. Birth order and... Continue reading "Birth Order and Personality"
When your child flies alone there are some regulations that apply to them, and some things you can do to help ensure their safety. Let's first take a look at the little things you can do at home or to... Continue reading "Need to Know: Your Child Flying Solo"
Birth order has been considered a primary influence on personality since the time of Alfred Adler, a psychologist who was one of the first to consider birth order.   Obviously, each child has different characteristics, regardless of their birth order. ... Continue reading "The Personality Type of a First Child"
Each child is born with a distinct and different personality. But did you know that the order in which a child is born can also influence your child's personality? Here is a bit of information on birth order so you... Continue reading "Personality and Your Child's Birth Order"
When your children are toddlers and you are constantly changing diapers, filling bottles, putting kids down for naps, and watching Elmo, you might be looking forward to the day that your kids leave home with anticipation. You think how wonderful... Continue reading "The Stay-At-Home Parent and the Empty Nest"
There are so many things to think about when you have a baby. It can almost be overwhelming worrying about everything, but choosing a parenting style is one of the most important things you can do for you and your... Continue reading "How to Choose Your Parenting Style"
To understand how to cope with empty nest syndrome so it does not turn into full blown depression, you first need to understand what it is. What is empty nest syndrome, and who does it affect? Empty Nest Syndrome (ENS)... Continue reading "Coping With Empty Nest Before It Becomes Depression"
When choosing a parenting style, there are a lot of things to consider. They may all seem to be a good idea, there may be a couple that would work for your child, there may be one that you think... Continue reading "A Comparison of Parenting Styles"
A common struggle many parents face is the syndrome called empty nest. Their whole life they have the goal of setting their children free to pursue their dreams, but once it actually happens, they can become depressed or sad. This... Continue reading "Coping With An Empty Nest"
You care so much about your bundle of joy and you want the best for them. You want to give them the best life and the most opportunities. That starts with choosing the right parenting style for your child. Take... Continue reading "Choosing Your Parenting Style Based on Your Child"
If you are a parent you have undoubtedly joked about how nice it will be when the kids are finally grown up and out of the house. Raising kids is hard, and the point when they move out and are... Continue reading "Cope Tactics When Your Kids Leave Home"
When you are ready to have children, or when you think you are ready, there are so many things to consider. One of the many things that will need to be discussed and determined will be your parenting style. There... Continue reading "A Look at Different Parenting Styles"
Here are some things that you need to do when searching for colleges. Number One: The first thing that you need to do when doing a college search is to know important questions and considerations about the colleges when you... Continue reading "What You Need to Do When Searching For Colleges"
Choosing which college your child is going to attend is a major decision that you and they are going to need to make. This is a decision that can not be taken lightly and a lot of thought and preparation... Continue reading "Finding the Best College For Your Child"
Kids today do not lead the kinds of lives that you and I did when we were young and there are certainly even more drastic differences between our children today and the childhood of our parents. Children carry their cell... Continue reading "Need to Know: The Too Busy Child"

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